by Julie Lelièvre, CYT
On October the 9th 2014, I became a Permanent Resident of Canada. More than a status and a card, it’s been a journey of self-inquiry.
About four years ago, as I was enjoying my last month in Canada before going back to France, my home, I was in Wiarton, Ontario to help in an organic and local cafe to improve my English.
At first sight, I fell in love with the land, the abundance of nature, the Peninsula. I discovered it under the snow and also looked at pictures that have been taken in the summer.
Then I fell in love with an amazing man.
Not back in France yet, I said to my parents that I was planning on going back to Ontario to live on the Peninsula.
It’s how a different life for me started; it’s how I gradually met a different me. I had a deep desire to change or at least to evolve. I wanted to get in touch with my art, my heart, my body through the movement of dance and yoga. I wanted a simple life, I was willing to discover and wonder.
I decided not to come back home to France, I decided to take on the path that life was offering me.
Being out of my comfort zone: country, language, family, friends, lifestyle, culture, food, etc. was a challenge. Adapting myself on many levels, embracing a new relationship and acknowledging who I was, where I was in my life.
I was on my way to learn about self-esteem and how to find home within. It wasn’t always so clear but I knew it would be transforming. I cleansed, I cried, I screamed, I laughed, I smiled, I hugged; I felt alive and vulnerable.
Writing, dancing, practicing yoga, hiking, contemplating, helped me in my self-reflection journey. My partner for who he is, reflected myself as a mirror, with no judgment but love and compassion. All along my tumultuous path to my true self, people around me reflected facets of who I was.
It was tough sometimes, I learned so much, and now it feels so good. I learned how to enjoy the roller coasters of emotions, feelings, doubts, certainties, etc.
As Buddha says “the only constant is the change”.
The immigration process and my settlement in a new country shook my root Chakra.
Where were my roots? What were they? As I was melting into this new life, creating new roots I was also wondering who I was before, what was my culture, etc. ad how to blend, to mix more than to replace and loose.
Slowly but surely my quest for balance became clearer.
As life unfolded, I felt more confident, more grounded. I supported my metamorphosis with Reiki, Yoga, Nia and Energy Medicine, to find my way home. This place within myself that has no borders, no government, no flag. This place I carry everywhere, I can go anytime, free and precious, it is within me.
My home is a deep sense of self, unified, grounded and balanced. It is plenty of love and compassion for myself. From this place I find happiness and generosity, from this place I find my light into the world to share my best with others.
No card is required, no fees have to be paid, only the will and determination to be guided through life by the curiosity of self-discovery. I am so grateful for all the challenges, all the support and all the love I found in this Canadian adventure.
And you know what? It’s only the first chapter of my journey and it makes me so happy!
Namaste.
Dear Julie,
I am a French student from Alsace Lorraine, studying Plant Agriculture in Ontario. I came here three years ago and have at least 2 more years to finish my program. I fell in love with this country and I will apply for the permanent residency as I get closer to my graduation. I can totally relate to your article. It has been difficult, challenging, I lost myself through the process and was filled with doubts. I eventually was able to find myslef and the home within me that does not have any border. I feel so much more grounded, I see love everywhere, yoga is part of my daily life. I am so grateful for this Canadian adventure and so excited as it is for me as well just the beginning of a wonderful journey! Thank you so much for sharing your experience, this is an inspiration! Namaste. Cindy
Wow Cindy, thank you for sharing your story with me!
So glad you can relate!!
Where do you live and study?
I’d love to connect 🙂
I live and execute my research in st Catharines. I would love to connect as well! 🙂